Right, so I just played my first two anonymous games (a little late, I know), and can I just say: People are evil in anonymous mode.
I should say that, on the forums, I'm the guy who always says, "Being stabbed in the back is part of the game! Just shake it off!"
Well, anonymous mode is in a category of its own. It was more than just being stabbed in the back. It was a player spitefully extending the game to kill me, even though I'd been friendly and trustworthy the entire time we'd been allies, and only mildly annoyed when he stabbed me in the back.
Maybe this is an oddity, an outlier, or something, but I think that people become something terrible when they're anonymous. For the first time, though, I strongly considered quitting Subterfuge. It gives me more sympathy for the people who complain about being stabbed in the back.
I get that a lot of people enjoy anonymous mode, but the reason I'm writing this is that I don't think it's healthy for the game as a whole. If I, one of the biggest fans of the game and a veteran who has been backstabbed a lot, consider quitting after an anonymous game, how much more will the average player want to quit? I have 30 games of experience to judge off of, but what about someone with only 10? 5? These are people who might love the game without anonymous hell.
And if you love anonymous mode, and play in it exclusively, I have a request for you: Please remember that these are people you're playing with, not AI. Treat them with the same respect you would if you knew their name.