I'm playing my first anonymous game this week, and the other players' behavior has been baffling to me. I started in a pretty good position, didn't attack anyone, just played politely and tried to be friends with all my neighbors.
Fast forward a few days, and Red is WAY ahead of everybody else. Like, in Neptunium production, troop production, everything. I start messaging the other players to see if they want to team up and take on Red, since otherwise we're all going to lose in like a day or two. Nobody responds, except one player who says he's in an alliance with Red and refuses to break it. Then everyone except Red attacks me.
This morning I messaged Red about it, saying, basically, congrats, and that I didn't know what he did to form such a strong alliance but nobody would join me in fighting him, and that everyone attacked me instead. He got SUPER angry and said "I can't believe you'd do that, no wonder everyone attacked you if you're asking them to break their alliances, I thought we were friends" and attacks me as well.
Now I don't mind him attacking - that's part of the game - but I'm surprised he got so upset. Isn't making and breaking alliances a big part of the game? And he and I weren't in an alliance, so why should he expect me not to attack him? Especially when he's in first place? I talked to another player about it, and he was basically like "Yeah, I know he's winning, but I already gave my word," which seems... weird. You're basically saying you'll never attack another player no matter what. Is this a common attitude? This is my first-ever game with strangers, so I honestly don't know.