Firsts of all let me say I'm loving this game. It's been my addiction since release. Even got L2 on release day to support the devs. Well on to my question, I can't tell who's funding who. I can see if someone is getting funded because of the dot next to there name but I all the dots aren't of a player color. I thought, from what I have read that you should be hable to see who's funding who. Maybe it's just me being a noob and you can't tell.

Nope, it's hidden intentionally.
You might be able to figure it out for yourself, though. You can only fund a player if you have 20 more neptunium than them, and you can normally tell who is working together well enough to fund each other.

So it was me being a noob. Well now I can rest easy knowing I don't have a glitch out game.