I'll post general comments without taking your current game in mind.
chariot rider wrote:I was wondering in general do you want to expand quickly and get ahead of the 8 ball or expand slowly and not get people angry at you? The game is well past that phase so I am not worried about asking for advice
Almost 100% depends on your preference. I'd like to talk to some people, and when you do that it's hard to go after *all* outposts that they could also be interested in. But within my playing style, I can still persue more outposts on one border than on another. Depending on the distance from my empire, if/how I've communicated with that neighbour, and wether the empty outposts are generators or factories.
chariot rider wrote:So my opponents are starting to drill mines. Red, beige, and brown have all drilled mines. I will have one in 13 hours. So what are your thoughts on drilling in the first day. Do you attract a lot of attention or wait for others to start?
In the very first day it takes 50 precious drillers from your total. That could be a lot. I wouldn't feel confident being the first to mine on the very first day without a *very* nice specialist hire.
chariot rider wrote:An interesting situation has come up. Brown has his queen open. He has no drillers defending it. Ordinarily this would be no problem but he has a tinkerer that is keeping his shields down. I sent a sub with a singular driller to the outpost. It is currently set to take the outpost. I am just going for it because why not. What are your thoughts on this situation.
Sure, go for it, if it's not your ally. Maybe it's someone's first game and they'll learn the hard way. Hopefully it won't scare them away from the game. (You might want to talk to them right after they lose to explain what happened.)
If your attack is countered or the queen is moved away, you'll only lose one driller. If I'd be the person with the queen exposed like that, I wouldn't start total war against you for sending 1 driller like this. It shows you understand the game's mechanics and might even earn you an ally.
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Edit - the advice you didn't ask for:
* Maybe talk to blue. You might like to trade outposts. If he sends those 52 to your 8 driller outpost and lowers shields, you can give up that 8 driller outpost and take his 52 one. Makes more sense for both of you.